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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sep 4–5, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / WorkshopVerified host21+

Kink Klass - Keep Calm and Tie On: An Introduction to Rope Bondage with Tito Joey

Hosted by Leather Archives & Museum

Sat, Sep 5, 20262:00 PM – 3:30 PM🇺🇸 Gerber Hart Library & Archives, Chicago, IL

Erotic rope bondage is more than just creating a human version of macramé plant hangers. With so many types of tutorials available online and in written manuals, along with the wide variety of materials used, it can feel daunting to even begin tying yourself or a partner. In this introductory hands-on class, Tito Joey will teach the basics of rope, the different materials used, various styles of rope bondage, and essential safety precautions for both riggers and bunnies. Attendees can expect to learn and practice foundational skills such as rope handling, maintaining tension, and performing single-column and double-column ties. It is recommended to bring a tying partner so you can apply what you learn together in a full hog tie. Materials needed: 3–4 hanks of rope measuring 8–10 meters (26–32 feet) Tito Joey is a vibrant, community‑minded personality who brings warmth and flair to every gathering. After first exploring the Leather community in 2009, he fully embraced his passion in 2023 with guidance from the influential members of ONYX Midwest, who emphasized that service to the community is at the heart of it all. Under the mentorship of Master Leather Redux and raea, founders of House Kampilan, Tito Joey has explored many aspects of the Leather and BDSM community and what it has to offer, including the consensual impact‑focused practices he enjoys. He flags Black and Gray on the left, and Light Blue on the right. As a lover of Japanese art, Tito Joey is drawn to the expressive, aesthetic qualities of Shibari and kinbaku, appreciating how these forms allow creative, sensual, and intense emotional energies to flow together into a cohesive scene. Programs are open to all regardless of gender, gender identity, orientation, experience level....all means all. - - - THIS EVENT IS LOCATED AT THE GERBER/HART LIBRARY & ARCHIVES WHILE OUR BUILDING IS CLOSED FOR RENOVATIONS! 6500 N Clark St 2nd Fl, Chicago, IL 60626 Registration is required for this event!

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

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Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Blood, Sweat, & Fears: The Art and Thrill of Blood Play

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Tue, Sep 8, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

For those who crave the sting, the drip, and the rush— this is for you. --- Enter into the visceral and intoxicating world of Blood Play, where sensation and surrender meet danger and transcendence. From the sharp kiss of spiked implements to the intimate precision of cutting and cupping, we’ll explore how pain, pleasure, and power bleed together. For those who crave the sting, the drip, and the rush— this is for you. Learn safety essentials, techniques, and the dark delicious creativity of drawing blood with intention. Whether you're a seasoned player or a curious explorer, come ready to revel in the exquisite agony of broken flesh. Each drop of blood is a story, a sacrifice, a thrill. This isn’t just play—it’s art, ritual, and raw intensity. There will be an explicit live demo not for the faint of heart Open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play! PRESENTER: Jamie Joy (they/them) is a queer trans Jewish certified sex educator and hungry slut for freaky fantasies. Their life and work is committed to spreading joy, consent, and pleasure through community orgynizing. They have been educating on a wide range of topics related to sex and sexuality for the past 10+ years with experience in K-12 schools, health clinics, college campuses, adult sex shops, national conferences, BDSM dungeons, non-profits, community organizations, and more. Jamie Joy loves to stay up late, throw an unforgettable party, and teach people about the wonders of fisting and fire play. They are always excited to connect and collaborate - find them on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website www.jamiejoy.com TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/8368ce590a $30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

Pentacles of Power: A Six-Week Sex Magick Intensive for Kinky People

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sep 8–Oct 13, 2026💻 Online

Practical sex magick for solo and partnered practitioners --- This six-week virtual course launching in September 2026 will include self-directed work and collaborative live sessions via Zoom. Over the course of six weeks you will learn by doing: Working with the energetic body Sigil magick Raising energy with sex and S/m The basics of pentacle magick Miriam Green's twinned pentacles of power exchange and more We will have weekly meetings -- generally on Tuesday evenings -- and homework throughout the workshop. All weekly meetings will be recorded for those who cannot attend live. Expect a total of three hours coursework per week, plus daily practice in sitting meditation and journaling. Go deeply into creating your own magickal frameworks I have been teaching magick since 2004 and teaching BDSM since 2014. The work we'll engage in together goes well beyond what I can teach in a typical 90-minute intro class. We'll work with the tools and techniques I use most often, including personal D/s pentacles I developed in 2006 and have never taught to students outside of this workshop. Our six-week course will go live September 8 - October 13, 2026, and will include pre-recorded video lessons, written lessons, and six live sessions of about 93 minutes each (pre-recorded if you cannot attend live). Who is Miriam BatAsherah Green? Miriam BatAsherah Green is a full-time BDSM educator and coach who has been teaching magick since 2004 and kink since 2014. Miriam is an initiated witch in the Reclaiming tradition and a proud member of Ordo Templi Orientis. Miriam's kabbalah and tarot classes have long demystified occult practice, and they look forward to bringing this approach to practical sex magick.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / WorkshopVerified host21+✦ Beginner-friendly

LA: Back to School with Wicked Grounds

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Fri, Sep 11, 20266:00 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 Friends with Benefits Clubhouse, Los Angeles, CA

Learn all the basics in this orientation style class! --- Wondering what awaits you in the mysterious land of kink and BDSM? Looking to explore, but not quite sure where to start? How do we differentiate a kink from a fetish? A top from a bottom? How does negotiation work? Bring your questions and queries to this judgement-free space. Let's unpack our perverse desires with care and curiosity. Learn all the basics in this orientation style class! Right before our Wicked Grounds Play Lab! Find out more about this month's skill share here: https://luma.com/61ukyxbd INSTRUCTOR: Killmeat Nick (he/they/it/she) is the Events Manager for Wicked Grounds, educator, house Dom/Top offering Emcee-ing, kink tasters, performance, and party hosting. Dungeon Monitor with kink-aware CPR and bloodborne pathogen training. A queer trans gender transcend-er, erotic scholar, actor, model, legacy clown, and Emotional Support Animal. Entranced by kink via Folsom Street Fair in 2015, active in the SF Bay Area scene since 2018, educator since 2021, and active in the LA scene since 2023. With over 10 years of navigating kink and the queer community, their direct communication and connection driven practice has developed into a Community Restoration Specialist role. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/c06ba2e07c Tickets: $20 - $50 in advance, or $30 - $60 at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. Scholarship Tickets may be available, apply through the Volunteer List on Forbidden Tickets. LOCATION & ACCESSIBILITY This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space. We host our in-person events at our Clubhouse in the Historic Core of DTLA. The building is ADA accessible. There is an elevator. Note for people with wheelchairs, canes, other walking assistance devices: the tile of the lobby floor is uneven so be careful navigating, and the bathroom is not ADA compliant. This is a low-scent event: no perfume, cologne, or essential oils. The Clubhouse is no-shoe space. When you enter, please leave your shoes on the shoe rack by the front door. If you need an exemption, please email accessibility@fwb.events. PARKING There are paid lots, garages, and street parking within a block of the loft. We will send out additional information once your RSVP is confirmed. SAFTEY IN DTLA Please be mindful of your surroundings when arriving and leaving. Many of us are longtime downtown residents and have never personally had an issue walking around at night, but DTLA is full of interesting characters from all walks of life, especially on weekends. We love our community and ask that you're respectful of everyone you encounter. COMMUNITY HEALTH & SAFETY COVID, Cold, and Flu: We recommend all attendees test for COVID before you arrive. No need to send results - we trust you. If you are feeling sick, were recently exposed to someone who is sick, or test positive, we ask that you stay home to help us keep our community safe and healthy and we will credit you for a future event. We provide face masks and hand sanitizer at the clubhouse. We run air purifiers during and between events. While we take all the precautions we can to be covid safe, this is ultimately an event with risk of infection. If you are higher risk of infection or adverse effects for covid or other illnesses, we encourage you to err on the side of caution. ABOUT FWB fwb is a queer-femme founded community for curious friends. We host virtual and in-person workshops, socials, and parties. CONTACT US Email friends@fwb.events if you’d like more information on private rentals, collaboration, sponsorship, or any other inquiries.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+✦ Beginner-friendly

Wicked Grounds Play Lab: Impact

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Fri, Sep 11, 20268:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Friends with Benefits Playhouse, Los Angeles, CA

​Play Lab is a kinky skill share, come indulge in your passions or learn something new! This month's topic: Impact with Killmeat Nick --- Curious about the myriad of sensations that come from impact play? Ever craved a spanking? What's the difference between thud and sting, and how can we create a symphonic mix of these feelings? Can one achieve orgasm from pain alone? What is a flow state and how do we enter it? Find out at Play Lab: Impact! An immersive experience for all skill levels. Join us for this community-forward collaborative space where we tackle a different topic each month. Bring your favorite gear, tools and toys if you have them. If you don't have a thing or are just starting out, bring an open mind and a willingness to soak it all in. We welcome those of all experience levels! Curious newbies and seasoned kinksters alike can come together to build knowledge and practice in a casual setting. To keep things open to folks at all experience levels, this space will be both sex positive and sex free. Our hosts and space monitors will be present to provide assistance and create a safer container for us to play and explore. (If you are an experienced kink practitioner interested in volunteering for free or reduced entry, contact nick@wickedgrounds.com for vetting.) ​Here's a look at our schedule: ​7:30: Doors open ​8:00: Host presentation 8:15: DOORS CLOSE (Please pre-plan for transport and parking, see below for more info) 8:15 - 8:30: Review of rules and guidelines, toys and gear show-and-tell 8:30-9: Group negotiation ​9 - 10: Conversation, mingling, moshing, practice, kinky games, demos, and more! ​10:30: Lights on, clean up, everyone out! ​Rules & Guidelines Advice and feedback require consent granted unless it is a safety concern, in which case inform a space monitor or host No critique without a compliment, stay constructive without judgement Sex (any sort of hand, mouth, genital, etc. to genital contact with intent to arouse) is not permitted (at this event) We ask that genitals be covered, however uncovered nipples are permitted No phones or photography allowed for the duration of this event Voyeurism is permitted, please watch and expect to be watched! FWB space etiquette review ABOUT OUR HOST: Killmeat Nick (he/they/it/she) is the Events Manager for Wicked Grounds, educator, house Dom/Top offering Emcee-ing, kink tasters, performance, and party hosting. Dungeon Monitor with kink-aware CPR and bloodborne pathogen training. A queer trans gender transcend-er, erotic scholar, actor, model, legacy clown, and Emotional Support Animal. Entranced by kink via Folsom Street Fair in 2015, active in the SF Bay Area scene since 2018, educator since 2021, and active in the LA scene since 2023. With over 10 years of navigating kink and the queer community, their direct communication and connection driven practice has developed into a Community Restoration Specialist role. ​TICKETING: ​Tickets: $30-$50 in advance or at the door. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3c18d1aa46 ​The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. ​​​We offer multiple price points, so that cost is less of a barrier to attendance. ​If the regular ticket price is too much, use code KITTY to take $10 off our regular ticket price. ​This event is an inclusive, queer, and sex-positive safe space. LOCATION & ACCESSIBILITY We host our in-person events at our Clubhouse in the Historic Core of DTLA. The building is ADA accessible. There is an elevator. Note for people with wheelchairs, canes, other walking assistance devices: the tile of the lobby floor is uneven so be careful navigating, and the bathroom is not ADA compliant. This is a low-scent event: no perfume, cologne, or essential oils. The Clubhouse is no-shoe space. When you enter, please leave your shoes on the shoe rack by the front door. If you need an exemption, please email accessibility@fwb.events. PARKING There are paid lots, garages, and street parking within a block of the loft. We will send out additional information once your RSVP is confirmed. SAFTEY IN DTLA Please be mindful of your surroundings when arriving and leaving. Many of us are longtime downtown residents and have never personally had an issue walking around at night, but DTLA is full of interesting characters from all walks of life, especially on weekends. We love our community and ask that you're respectful of everyone you encounter. COMMUNITY HEALTH & SAFETY COVID, Cold, and Flu: We recommend all attendees test for COVID before you arrive. No need to send results - we trust you. If you are feeling sick, were recently exposed to someone who is sick, or test positive, we ask that you stay home to help us keep our community safe and healthy and we will credit you for a future event. We provide face masks and hand sanitizer at the clubhouse. We run air purifiers during and between events. While we take al

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Polyamory and Power Exchange Relationships

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Sep 12, 202611:00 AM – 1:00 PM💻 Online

This class breaks down some common problems encountered when combining D/s dynamics and polyamorous relationship styles, and offers strategies for working through those pitfalls. --- Power Exchange Relationships, or D/s relationships, can seem to be at odds with polyamorous theory, because of polyamory’s focus on personal responsibility and autonomy. This class breaks down some common problems encountered when combining D/s dynamics and polyamorous relationship styles, and offers strategies for working through those pitfalls, including: Creating an egalitarian container within the D/s dynamic to negotiate polyamorous concerns Pre-negotiation of relationship terms Differentiating similar D/s relationships within a polycule Including a D/s relationship in an otherwise egalitarian network Negotiating the interaction of different power exchange relationships Is my Dom's Master mine? I also offer lots of time for workshop style discussion of what works for participants who are in multiple dynamics or one D/s dynamic within a larger polycule, so that class participants can hear a variety of experiences. PRESENTER: Laura Boyle is a writer, polyamorist, and educator who has been teaching classes on polyamory, sexuality, boundaries, kink, and the intersection of those on a local level and at conventions since 2018. She is the author of Ready for Polyamory: A Pragmatic Guide to Consensual Non-Monogamy. After more than 15 years in consensually non-monogamous relationships, in polycules that have ranged from temporarily closed Vs to constellations whose shapes are increasingly indescribable depending on which relationships folks consider worth including, she loves to share practical information learned from years of fixing her own mistakes and missteps. TICKETING: $20 - $40 in advance. We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/69c350e512 Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Party21+

LOAD™ (ATLANTA)

Hosted by Organized Grime Crew

Sep 12–13, 202610:00 PM – 3:00 AM🇺🇸 The Heretic Atlanta, Atlanta, GA

Strap in, Atlanta. ⛓ Kink Down South x Organized Grime are back at it. We are taking over The Heretic on Sept 12 for our 4th Edition of LOAD™ (Lights Off And Dance). 💡🚫💦 L.O.A.D. (Lights Off And Dance)™ We’re turning the lights down and the volume up. Expect the signature Organized Grime production: Beefed up Sound 🔊, thick Smoke 💨, Lasers 🎉, and a dark floor ready for whatever you’re into. 🎧 THE SOUNDTRACK HEADLINER: DJ RICARDO TAVARES (New York City | Harder) Based in New York City, Ricardo Tavares is the creator of the internationally recognized HARDER party brand, known for its underground energy, cutting-edge house and techno music, and unapologetically sex-positive atmosphere. Originally from Brazil, Ricardo has been a fixture in NYC nightlife for decades, curating unforgettable events that have expanded to cities including Berlin, Miami, San Francisco, Chicago, Toronto, Fire Island, and Provincetown. His passion for exceptional music and inclusive nightlife experiences has made HARDER one of the most respected underground party brands in the world. OPENING SET: DJ RYAN C WILLING (Chicago) We’re kicking off the night with the mastermind behind the madness. As the head of the infamous Midwest party crew Organized Grime (creators of CUNTea™️, LOAD™️, and Grizzly), Ryan brings that heavy Chicago influence straight to the booth. Known for his signature Dark & Dirty House and TechHouse vibes, he is currently taking the industry by storm with residencies in Atlanta, Houston, Denver, Nashville, and Chicago. He’s here to heat up the Heretic dance floor and get you sweating early. 🗓 SATURDAY, JUNE 6, 2026 📍 HERETIC ATLANTA ⏰ 10 PM – 3 AM ⚠️ GET THERE EARLY TO AVOID THE LINE. 21+ | CLOTHES CHECK AVAILABLE Gear, leather, rubber, or whatever makes you feel sexy is highly encouraged. ***People of any color, size, body type, gender, gender expression(s), and sexual orientation are welcome. ⛓🕺🏽💃🏼🧔🏻🧔🏽‍♂️👨🏿‍🦱🐶🐻🐼🐷💄👠⛓ BIGOTRY WILL NOT BE TOLERATED

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Sep 12, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Bratting and Brat Taming

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Sep 12, 20262:00 PM – 4:30 PM💻 Online

We will be talking about roles, care, consent and tips for a good bratting and brat taming scene! --- The idea behind this workshop is to welcome everyone with an interest for mayhem, resistance, play fighting, and mischievousness to share and learn! We will be talking about roles, care, consent and tips for a good bratting and brat taming scene! Topics covered: Definitions, glossary and history Motivations behind this practice Roles and archetypes Risk, responsibility and care Negotiation and scene creation Scene Ideas INSTRUCTORS: Mel (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc aligned gender fluid sex and BDSM educator. He is the co-founder of Kinky Vibe Argentina, a collective based in Buenos Aires that hosts events, support groups and workshops for the kinky, queer and neurodivergent community both online and offline. Lifestyle kinkster, he has been doing kink for the last ten years, identifies as sub-leaning switch, and is a sex worker (ProDomme). One of his greatest passions is thinking about power, risk, and self-consent in the context of kink, and spending most of his time accompanying people on their kinky journey. He has been teaching about kink, pleasure, risk, and depathologization for the last nine years. Memi (he/him) is an Argentinian trans masc person, who is a lifestyle kinkster, a history teacher, and an early-career researcher in the history of sexualities. He has been doing kink for almost a decade in a wide variety of kinks, relationships, dynamics, and sides of the slash. He is very curious about power, oppression, and the complex history behind kink, the space where didactics and kink meet, and loves to be a kink enabler to everyone around. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/3dd61b7df5 The regular ticket is $30. This is what most people should pay. Choose the sliding scale level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing for 7 days after distribution. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sep 13–14, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sep 19–20, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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Class / Workshop21+✦ Beginner-friendly

Shamanic Kink Immersion

Hosted by retreat center in Upstate NY

Sep 22–28, 20264:00 PM – 1:00 PM🇺🇸 New York, NY· address on RSVP

Welcome to the Shamanic Kink Immersion: Harvers & Hunt! Join us for a transformative experience filled with shamanic rituals, kink exploration, and deep connections. This event will take place at the beautiful Easton Mountain Retreat Center on September 22nd - 28th, 2026. Dive into the mysteries of midsummer as we delve into the intersection of spirituality and kink. Get ready to expand your consciousness, explore your desires, and connect with like-minded individuals in a safe and supportive environment. Don't miss out on this unique opportunity to explore the depths of your being in a magical setting. The training welcomes those who have gained solid experience in at least one of the following fields and a strong curiosity about the other ones: Sacred sexuality/conscious intimacy/(neo-)tantra BDSM or conscious kink Transformational spaces & ritual healing work (group and/or 1-1) Maybe you’ve found your way into the realms of BDSM, Psychodrama Role Play, Tantric Kink, Therapeutic BDSM, or hovered around the edges of it. Maybe you’ve found it exciting, enticing, felt drawn, and then didn’t find the right time and place to step in… Maybe you’ve gone deep and desire to expand and explore even deeper. If you’ve felt some of the exhilaration and power available to you in this realm, and you’d like to truly get to the core of how to use BDSM in a transformative and sacred way, join Terra and Francesca for a profound immersion into the essence of ritual & conscious kink. The Shamanic Kink immersion lives at the intersection of ancient shamanic principles, somatic healing practices, sexology, and modern BDSM. During this 7-day in-person group journey, we will dive deep into how to use the tools, toys, and techniques of BDSM for healing, ritual, and transformation. THE IMMERSION DRAWS ITS TEACHINGS FROM: ~ Shamanism ~ Tantra ~ Psychology ~ Neurobiology ~ Sexology ~ Taoism ~ Somatics ~ Recovery from Trauma ~ Contemporary Kink/BDSM YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO SAFELY AND POWERFULLY ENGAGE IN: Feeling, Receiving & Guiding Energy Basic principles of Tantra Sacred Cacao ceremonies to deepen explorations of some of our work’s core principles How to find out what your Dominant and/or submissive archetypes are seeking and how they want to be expressed How to become an exquisite receiver (sub) or transmitter (Dom) for erotic energy How to engage courageously in sexual healing & empowerment Co-creating Kinky Scenes that are Therapeutic, Expansive, and Transformative How to work with Archetypes, Spirituality, Ritual, and the Psychology of Ceremony How to engage in Role Play therapeutically Understanding and working with some of the most common issues that benefit from receiving Therapeutic Kink Using and fine-tuning communication skills and emotionally intelligent boundary setting Sexual healing of past traumas (emotional, physical, sexual, & spiritual) The importance and use of After Care to integrate our healing process YOU WILL BE TRAINED IN: Breathing Techniques The basics of ritual, ceremony, and space-holding Sensation Play as a Body Blessing Dropping in to full surrender during ritual scene play The Basic Principles of Tantric Kink How to work with gears & flavors of Energy The power of Presence Understanding the Wounds of the male, female, and other gendered psyches When & how to support a Trauma Release & when to Stop It How to be a powerful and confident submissive who’s capable of surrendering deeply without needing to be codependent How to be a masterful, fine-tuned, and capable Dominant, without needing to be domineering WE WILL ALSO BE COVERING HOW Tantra, Psychology, Somatics, and Sexology can be combined with a knowledge of Kink/BDSM to: Bridge differences when only one partner in a couple identifies as kinky Deepen intimacy and heart opening in any Scene/Session Expand the healing energy in every Scene/Session Enhance the energetic connection in Kink/BDSM THE SHAMANIC KINK IMMERSION IS FOR YOU IF YOU ARE: A healer, bodyworker, dakini, tantric practitioner A Pro Dom/me, Healing Dom/me, Tantric Dom/me Looking to take your capacity to support and contain others in a kink-positive setting to another level Into roleplay, power exchange, or sensation play, and curious about exploring these deeply, in an empowering and expansive way Called to contribute to the healing or wholeness of another human being through the tools, toys, and techniques of Conscious Kink & Transformational BDSM A hands-on sexual professional seeking to expand into Therapeutic Kink Partnered with or dating someone who would benefit from this A Dominant who seeks to make a positive difference for your sub A submissive desiring to find more depth, grace, and ease in your surrender A top who desires to bring healing to your bottom A bottom wanting to find mastery and satisfaction in your submission For more information and the REGISTRATION FORM, visit our website https://www.shamanickink.com/shamanic-kink-immersion-new-york#Regis

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Sep 26, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sep 27–28, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 2–3, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+✦ Beginner-friendly💻 Online

ONLINE: So Fresh & So Clean: Bootblacking & Leather Care 101

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Fri, Oct 9, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Buff up your leather care knowledge & make your skills shine! --- Who doesn't love the look of a well-polished boot that catches the light and catches your eye? Leather pieces have the ability to outlast many of their original owners... with care. In this class, we'll teach you the basics of making your leathers look nice and last, as well as cleaning and caring for your leathers. Bootblacking can be a service to the community or dynamic, a form of worship, an art form, a practice of technique, a side hustle, a spiritual practice, or all of the above! Learn how to easily clean and care for your favorite boots, whip, or vest! We'll also show you how to discern between oil tan and polished leather and how to treat them appropriately. After the class portion, there will be a brief workshop where you will work on your leather with guidance from the instructor. It is BYOL (Bring Your Own Leather). Synthetic leathers are welcome! PRESENTER: Lady V (she/her) is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer, Bootblack & Professional Dominatrix. She formerly served as a resident bootblack for the Portland Eagle, as well as 50 Shades of STFU & Jiffy Kink play parties. Lady V has also Bootblacked at various conferences, flea markets, cigar parties, & play parties across the US. Lady V became a believer in leather the first time she saw The Arnold’s ass in leather pants watching Terminator 2. Since then she has become an enthusiastic leather fetishist & has touched enough leather to make a dairy farmer blush. Lady V, who is also a hucow, is quite literally "leather". Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events. She is an out, proud, & fierce-as-fire transwoman with a passion for empowering others. While hailing from Detroit, Michigan, she has settled in Salem, Oregon, where she lives with her Mistress in a 24/7 TPE dynamic. She serves as the majordomo for her leather family, the Atomic Army. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/08f65ec883 We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. $30 is the suggested ticketing price. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $10. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and is available for later viewing. Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

Social21+✦ Beginner-friendly

Kinky Speed Friending with PsychoKitty

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Fri, Oct 9, 20267:00 PM – 8:00 PM🇺🇸 Trellis, San Francisco, CA

We can't promise love, but we can help you with a fun night full of meeting people, a lot of people, fast. Our purpose is to encourage you to meet new people. - Find people with similar kinks as yours. - Find people with whom to explore new kinks. - Find new friends. - Find new people to play with. People will be separated by appetite, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more.) And then you will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterward. The evening is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting, even if they aren't your appetite. Once the event has started, we can not add new people, so please be on time. PRESENTER: Ryan “Psychokitty” has been helping people connect with similar events for over a decade, from the old Shibaricon in Chicago to Dark Odyssey: Surrender, or hosting events at the SF Citadel, Catalyst, and of course Wicked Grounds. ACCESS: In SF, this event will be held at Trellis. Please note that doors will close quickly so we recommend arriving 15 minutes before the event starts for check-in. We cannot admit anyone after about 7:10 (once the event has begun), so please plan accordingly! Late arrivals cannot be refunded. Please do not attend in person if you have any respiratory symptoms whatsoever. Anyone displaying signs of respiratory symptoms may be asked to leave, regardless of vaccination status.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Class / Workshop21+💻 Online

ONLINE: Dating as Shadow Work: Turning Emotional Triggers into Pathways of Growth

Hosted by Wicked Grounds

Sat, Oct 10, 20266:00 PM – 8:00 PM💻 Online

Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid — abandonment, disappointment, shame, embarrassment, insecurity, grandiosity — and learn how to work with them skillfully. --- Dating has a way of bringing uncomfortable feelings to the surface—fast. Few other arenas of life expose our tender spots like romance does. One moment, we are flying high and find ourselves pedestalizing hot strangers; the next, we’re swimming in insecurity, shame, devastation, or hopelessness. Our shadow self represents the parts of us that we hide from our own sight—patterns and traits we would prefer not to feel, identify with, or be viewed as by others. However, what we resist persists: when repressed, our shadow often controls our lives from the sidelines, keeping authentic love and connection at arm’s length. Integrating the shadow is about reclaiming disowned parts of ourselves in order to gain awareness, wholeness, and personal agency. In this class, we’ll explore dating as a spiritual and psychological practice—a living lab for shadow integration. Through guided reflection, dialogue, and practical tools, we’ll look at the emotions we most want to avoid: embarrassment, humiliation, abandonment, disappointment, shame, insecurity, grandiosity, and more. We will learn how to work with them skillfully. Rather than chasing validation or avoiding pain, we’ll reframe dating as a path of self-inquiry, expansion, and authenticity. With this framework, every experience, even “bad dates,” becomes material for growth, self-reclamation, and emotional liberation. By shifting from a win/lose mindset to one of curiosity and evolution, participants will learn how to date from a place of truth in relationships—not from the shadow’s behind-the-scenes manipulation. You’ll learn how to: Recognize and name shadow emotions and patterns that surface in your dating experiences Transform emotional triggers into insights for integration and healing Reclaim your psycho-emotional space from rejection loops and idealization Approach dating as a sacred practice of awareness, embodiment, and authenticity Date others from a place of wholeness and authenticity, paving the path to better relationships Format: Embodied meditation + interactive talk + guided reflection exercises + group dialogue Who it’s for: This class is for anyone who senses that dating can be more than just a search for “the one” and that it can be a profound mirror and teacher. It’s especially for: Intellectually and spiritually curious humans who love psychological depth and meaning-making Relationship geeks and emotional explorers who want to understand their own patterns more deeply Queer, non-monogamous, kinky, or otherwise non-traditional daters seeking a growth-oriented framework that honors their complexity Free spirits who want to love and connect authentically, without giving away their power Anyone tired of repetitive loops who’s ready to use dating as a site of awakening rather than reenactment No matter your gender, orientation, or relational style, this space invites honesty, courage, and curiosity about what dating stirs within you, and how every emotional trigger can become a doorway to greater freedom. PRESENTER: Marie Thouin, PhD is a Dating & Relationship Coach who supports and guides people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives. She is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, The Times of London, and HuffPost. Marie has also published seminal research studies, the first encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and resources on the topic of compersion. Find out more at MarieThouin.com or on Instagram at @drmariethouin. TICKETING: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/47b645b29e $30 suggested. We offer multiple price points, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Choose the level you can comfortably afford. Patreon members at the VIP+ level may get discounted tickets for $20. Just see your Patreon membership emails for this month's discount code. Find out more at Patreon.com/WickedGrounds! If cost is a barrier at any level, please use the "Volunteer List" to request a free scholarship ticket. We will award as many scholarship tickets as we can on a space-available basis. ACCESS: This will be a live, recorded online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will be recorded and distributed to those who registered. Zoom now provides closed captioning, which will be available for this event.

Social21+

KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Oct 10, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Social21+

Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 11–12, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 17–18, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Oct 24, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Social21+

KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Oct 25–26, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

Preserving the history and material culture of leather kink, fetish and BDSM.

Party21+✦ Beginner-friendly

H.O.L-OWEEN PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE '26 - DEVIL'S NIGHT!!

Hosted by H.O.L Party, Inc! / [House of Leather]

Oct 30–31, 2026🇺🇸 The Sonoran, Palm Springs, CA

H.O.L-OWEEN PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE '26 - DEVIL'S NIGHT!! w/ Special Guest DJ TDON, plus Matt Consola, MOODY, & Either of Us • Friday, October 30th House of Leather presents a Leather Based Dance Experience that celebrates the iconic culture of queer leather’s past and its evolution into today’s BDSM & Kink communities. H.O.L brings together iconic imagery, decor, and projections, bootblacking, leather & kink vendors, community outreach vendors, and four cutting edge tech and house djs on two dance floors. Three rooms and outdoor spaces to dance, chill, and ‘flirt’. Friday, October 30th 2026 • 9PM - 2AM With DJs: TDON & MATT CONSOLA (Main Room) MOODY & EITHER OF US (Doug Jackson & Gabe Real) (Manhole Room) This Event Sells Out In Advance Quickly! Special Advance Tix Pricing can save you half off the door price.  Advance Tickets Link: Tier 1 - $25. (Sold Out Aug 20) 
Tier 2 - $35 Tier 3 - $45 
Door   - $50 Advance Tix: https://bit.ly/BDSM26 ▪ Special Guest Go Gos: ▪ Visuals & Graphics by MOODY ▪ Bootblack by Sky Russell (Mr. Mister Kink 2026) & Brawn (Red Room) ▪ Leather & Fetish Vendors: Sir Rat Leather, Sweaty Johnson, and Mr. Kink (Red Room) ▪ Outdoor Cigar Area & seating ▪ Dress Code: Leather, Kink, Fetish & Pup Gear ▪ Door Host: Ed Roque ▪ Clothing Check by Al Greyson & team (proceeds to benefit the Marsha P. Johnson LGBTQ+ Youth Drop In Center & The Transgender Health & Wellness Center) ▪ And if you need privacy, take it behind the banners in the Manhole Room ▪ Venue: The Sonoran: 1555 S Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264 Join our email list for early ticket options, promo codes, and more: click here to join: https://bit.ly/HOL_MAIL

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Social18+✦ Beginner-friendly

Fetish Social Limburg

Hosted by Fetish Social Limburg

Sat, Oct 31, 20261:30 PM – 6:30 PM🇳🇱 Café Rosé, Maastricht

FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG - MAASTRICHT, THE NETHERLANDS 🇳🇱 MAASTRICHT, ARE YOU READY? 🖤 On Saturday, October 31st, 2026, it’s time for the very first edition of Fetish Social Limburg! Whether you’re into leather, rubber, sportswear, work wear, sneakers, suit & tie, pup, tactical gear or something completely different... you’re welcome to join us! ABOUT THE SOCIAL Fetish Social Limburg brings people with different fetishes and interests together. It’s an afternoon to meet new people, catch up with familiar faces, make new connections and simply enjoy being part of the community. This is a social gathering, not a play party. There is no sex, play or nudity. It’s all about meeting each other in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. You’re welcome to come in gear, but you don’t have to. Whether you already feel completely at home in the fetish scene or you’re taking your first steps into the community, you’re welcome to join the social. WHO IS IT FOR? 🏳️‍🌈 Fetish Social Limburg brings together men from the gay, bi and queer fetish community, whatever fetish or gear you’re into. Age: 18+ DATE, TIME & LOCATION 📅 Saturday, October 31st, 2026 ⌚ 13:30 – 18:30 📍 Café Rosé Bogaardenstraat 43 6211 SN Maastricht The Netherlands GETTING THERE Café Rosé is centrally located in Maastricht, close to the Markt and Vrijthof. The venue is easily accessible by public transport, with several paid parking facilities nearby. Maastricht is located close to both the Belgian and German borders, making Fetish Social Limburg easy to reach from the Netherlands as well as the surrounding cross-border region. GOOD TO KNOW 🎟 Free entry — no registration required. Drinks are at your own expense. 👕 A changing area is available, so you can change into your gear at the venue. 🍹 You’ll receive 50% off your first drink. 🎃 As our first edition takes place on Halloween, Café Rosé will be dressed for the occasion. FETISH SOCIAL LIMBURG Fetish Social Limburg is about bringing different parts of the fetish community together. Leather, rubber, pup, sportswear, sneakers, work wear, tactical gear, suit & tie and many other fetishes and styles all have a place within our social. Different gear, different interests, one social. WILL YOU BE JOINING US? 🌐 fetishsociallimburg.nl (soon) 📸 Instagram: @fetishsocial.limburg

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Leather Archives & Museum

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 6–7, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather & Lashes Drag Brunch

Hosted by The Dallas Eagle

Sat, Nov 14, 20261:00 PM – 3:00 PM🇺🇸 Dallas, TX

Where Bold Meets Beautiful. Where Leather Meets Lashes. Where Brunch is a Full-On Spectacle. 💥 Where Bold Meets Beautiful. Where Leather Meets Lashes. Where Brunch is a Full-On Spectacle. 💥 Get ready to strut, sip, and serve at Leather & Lashes, the high-energy drag brunch at The Eagle that blends sultry leather-clad looks with sky-high lashes and show-stopping performances. 🌟 Expect: ✔ Electrifying performances that keep you on your feet. ✔ Delicious brunch bites & signature cocktails to keep the vibes flowing. ✔ A crowd that knows how to TURN UP. Brunch isn’t just a meal—it’s a full-throttle experience. So grab your crew, lace up that leather, and lash out with us every Sunday at The Eagle! 🍾 Bottomless mimosas. Badass performances. And a brunch you won’t forget. Know Before you Go Here’s everything you need to know to make the most of your time at our fabulous drag brunch at Dallas Eagle: Doors Open: 1:00 PM Show Start Time: 1:30 PM Location: Dallas Eagle 525 S. Riverfront Blvd. Dallas, TX 75207 Parking: The Dallas Eagle parking lot is right next to the venue. We recommend arriving early to secure a spot. Age Requirement: The Dallas Eagle is a 21+ venue, so don’t forget to bring your ID! Brunch is interactive! Cheer, clap, sing along, and show your love for the performers. Tipping the queens is highly encouraged! Bring cash to show your appreciation for their fabulous performances. Keep it respectful: While the queens love the energy and excitement, remember no touching—admire the talent from a safe distance. We can’t wait to see you at the Dallas Eagle for an unforgettable experience filled with laughs, jaw-dropping performances, and plenty of love! 🎉 UID: ev.26.a606

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Nov 14, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 21–22, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Nov 22–23, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Nov 28, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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DIAPER HAPPY HOUR presented by NYC ABDL

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Tue, Dec 1, 20267:00 PM – 10:00 PM🇺🇸 Rockbar NYC, New York, NY

Event Deets: 📅 Date: Tuesday, September 5th ⏰ Time: 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM (or whenever the party winds down) 📍 Location: Rockbar, 185 Christopher Street 💰 Suggested Donation: $5.00 (because good times are priceless!) Why You Absolutely Need to Be There: - 💃 Our fantastic bar staff will be serving up fun and drinks all night. Be sure to tip them like the superheroes they are! - 🤩 Drama? Not here, buddy! Our space is a drama-free zone. It's all about good vibes, epic conversations, and maybe even making lifelong friends. - 📸 Capture memories, but hey, ask before you snap! We're all about respecting each other's privacy. - 🧥 Coat check? Nah, you're in charge of your gear, but we trust you to keep it fabulous. - 🤗 Hugs and cuddles (fully clothed, of course) are on the menu – spread the love! - 🍑 Changing station's the only spot for nudies – let's keep the rest of the party PG, folks! - 💩 Keep those messy diapers at home – we're all about a clean and cozy vibe. - 🚫 Tantrum? No way, Jose! Bullying? Absolutely not! Let's keep things as light as a diaper breeze. **Sponsored By:** 🌟 AB Universe 🌈 Lil Comfort 🚼 Tykables 🐻 Onesies Downunder The Grand Finale: Get ready to win some epic raffle prizes – because who doesn't love surprises that make you grin like a toddler in a candy store? So grab your calendars, set a reminder, and get ready to make a splash (hopefully not too literal) at Diaper Happy Hour! This isn't just an event – it's a chance to celebrate your unique interests in an open, warm, and friendly space. Remember, the power of the diaper compels you – and by "power," we mean the power of connection, acceptance, and having a blast! IG: nycabdl

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BOUND NYC: A Rope Bondage Party for Queer Men

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 4–5, 20267:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Bound NYC... A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space. BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration. Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes. Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation. What to Expect 7:00 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up... Tie casually, if you'd like. 8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night. 8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace. The Vibe • A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere • Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room • Space for floor rope, with mats available • 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig • Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds What to Bring Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Meet Your Faciliatators BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed. Location and Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner's (2 Tickets) 🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here. OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Nappy Nibbles Social | An Free Indoor Picnic for ABDLs, Diaper Wearers, and Littles.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Dec 12, 20264:30 PM – 7:30 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Nappy Nibbles! A free, cozy indoor picnic for ABDL's, Diaper Wearers, and Littles Nappy Nibbles is a soft, relaxed, low-pressure ABDL social created for diaper wearers, littles and those who want a cozy space to simply be. This is an indoor picnic-style gathering where comfort, community, and playful connection come first. Whether you want to cuddle up, chat, color, snack, relax, or just spend time around people who get it, Nappy Nibbles offers a warm and easygoing space to settle in without pressure or performance. What to Expect 4:30 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 4:30 PM–7:30 PM | Indoor Picnic Social Relax, cuddle, color, chat, snack, and enjoy a soft, low-pressure ABDL space at your own pace. 7:30 PM | Social Ends But the fun doesnt have to! Stay for our ABDL BDSM party, Diaper Debauchery. Starting at 8PM. 🎟️ Click Here, to Reserve Your Ticket. The Vibe • Cozy indoor picnic atmosphere • Space for cuddling, chatting, coloring, and quiet play • Low-pressure socializing and gentle connection • Couches, pillows, and mattresses for lounging • Soft lighting and a soft, easygoing feel What to Bring BYO food, drinks, snacks, games, comfort items, etc. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator Nappy Nibbles is guided by Dan, a long-time member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, grounded, and judgment-free spaces for men’s erotic and intimate play. Dan brings: warmth gentleness emotional presence excellent consent practice clarity around boundaries and a calm, steady leadership style His facilitation helps everyone feel seen, supported, and able to explore in their own time and way. Location & Entry Instructions Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets This event is free! | Donations welcome. Will You Stay for the Play Party? 🎉 After Nappy Nibbles, we flow into Diaper Debauchery, our ABDL BDSM play party starting at 8 PM. Come for the cozy social — stay for the deeper exploration if it feels right. 🎟️ Reserve Your Entrance to Diaper Debauchery, Click Here. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to at

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KrINKles - Diaper Debauchery | A diapers and kink play party for diapered expression, connection, and play.

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 12–13, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 New York, NY

Welcome to Diaper Debauchery... This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. About This Event Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful. Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all. The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom. While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation. What to expect  8:00 PM | Doors Open The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after arrival. 9:00PM Brief check in & Rules Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules. Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace. 1AM Party Ends The Vibe  • Separate social, cuddle, and play areas • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. Diapers, outfits, buzzes, and more A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs. Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️ This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while making room for a wide range of expression. Location + Entry The Sanctuary of East Harlem 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Couples For Advanced tickets, Click HERE. Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal) Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected. Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Corrossion NYC | A Men's Only BDSM & Sex Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 13–14, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Corrosion NYC! A Men's Only BDSM Sex Party CORROSION NYC is a men-only BDSM and sex party built for men who want space for real play, real connection, and real sexual freedom. Some come for BDSM, some come for sex, and some come for both. The room is designed to let all of that happen naturally, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries at the center. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, and connecting outside of active play. Socializing happens there. BDSM and sexual activity happen in the designated play areas. This is not a social with furniture in the background. The play spaces are meant to be used. Expect a setup designed for both BDSM and sex, with floor beds, benches, a sling, suspension points, spanking benches, a St. Andrew’s Cross, and more. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 8 PM | Open BDSM + Sex Party Negotiate, play, hook up, connect, and move between social and active spaces at your own pace. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room. • Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, sex bench, and more) • A dark, masculine, sexually charged environment What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. CORROSION Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators CORROSION is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink. In this room, that means connection before climax, with consent, respect, and clear boundaries leading the way. Event Details Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 Solo, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Ticket Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend CORROSION. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

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Yes Sir! | A Mens BDSM Impact Play Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 19–20, 20268:00 PM – 1:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Yes Sir! A Men's Only BDSM Impact Play Party Yes Sir! is a men-only BDSM impact party built for men who want a dark, erotic space for impact, tension, and kinky exploration. Impact play is the theme of the night, with room for other BDSM play as it unfolds. Expect a room where flogging, spanking, paddles, canes, whips, rough body play, sensual impact, heavier impact, bondage, restraint, and CBT can all have a place. Sex is not the focus of the party, but may happen within scenes. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, aftercare, and connecting outside of active play. What to Expect 8 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and connect in the social lounge before moving into play. 9 PM | Rules + Room Opening Once the room opens, men are free to negotiate, play, and move through the space at their own pace. 1 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • Ambient lighting and expressive house music that drive the energy • Furniture designed for real use, not just atmosphere (Benches, suspension points, spanking benches, massage tables, wall space, kneeling benches, stocks, and more) • A dark, erotic environment where impact, tension, and desire build side by side • Space for scenes to unfold with intensity, creativity, and control What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, lube etc A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Dress Code Dress for the energy of the party. Fetishwear, jocks, briefs, harnesses, leather, rubber, sportswear, shirtless, or nude are all welcome. Nudity is allowed throughout the space. If you are sitting on shared furniture, keep your bottom covered or clean the surface appropriately. Meet Your Facilitators Yes Sir! is held by The Kink Collective team and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care support a wide range of impact and BDSM exploration. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets 🎟️ $30 Members, $40 General Admission, $60 Partner Tickets (entry for 2) 🎟 Reserve Your Space Today, Click Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend YES SIR!. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [<a href="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://kinkcollective.net/membership-1&sa=D&source=calendar&us

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Leather Archives & Museum

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Leather Archives & Museum

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STING NYC | A M/M Spanking Party

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Sat, Dec 26, 20261:00 PM – 6:00 PM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to STING NYC! A Spanking Party for Men STING NYC is a relaxed, men-only spanking party built for men who want space to give, receive, trade, watch, learn, and explore spanking in all its forms. Whether you are brand new or deeply experienced, STING NYC offers a playful, open environment where men can connect through impact, discipline, technique, erotic tension, and shared desire. From the sharp snap of a belt to the satisfying smack of a hand, this is a room for men who know that a good spanking can be playful, connective, intense, and deeply satisfying. There is a separate social lounge area for talking, settling in, aftercare, and connection outside of active play. What to Expect 1 PM | Doors Open Arrive, settle in, and get comfortable in the room. 1:45–2 PM | Arrival + Connection Meet others, go over the house rules, and set the tone before play begins. 2 PM | Play Room Opens For negotiated spanking, impact, watching, learning, connection, and exploration at your own pace. 6 PM | Party Ends The Vibe • A men-only space centered around spanking and impact • A relaxed, social, and erotic afternoon atmosphere • 12+ spanking stations and an open layout • Stations including a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and room for creative positioning • A separate social area for aftercare, downtime, snacks, and conversation What to Bring Implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Faciliatator This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all men in attendance. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend STING NYC. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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KrINKles - Call The Babysitter | Movie and Cuddle Social

Hosted by NYC Kink Link

Dec 27–28, 20267:00 PM – 12:00 AM🇺🇸 113 E 125th St, New York, NY

Welcome to Call The Babysitter! A light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering... Call the Babysitter is a light, playful, and supportive diaper-centered gathering for those who want a cozy space to relax, connect, and explore. This is a room where diapers, comfort, playful energy, and community come together in a welcoming environment built on kindness, consent, and care. Whether you arrive to cuddle, socialize, watch a movie, enjoy the comfort of sporting "little gear", or share playful connection with others, this is a space designed to help people settle in, feel at ease, and enjoy themselves at their own pace. What to Expect 7 PM | Doors Open The room opens organically. People often start socializing and connecting soon after arrival. 7:45 PM Brief Opening + Rules Check-In Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over intentions and house rules. 8 PM Movies Begin Cuddle, socialize, enjoy little gear, and connect in a soft, relaxing environment. 12 AM | Party Ends The Vibe • A cozy, diaper-centered atmosphere for community, comfort, and light exploration • Space to relax, socialize, cuddle, and connect • A changing table set up for diaper wearers What to Bring Diapers, pillow, change of clothes and any comfort items you plan to use. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No illegal drugs. Meet Your Facilitator This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic and playful exploration. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection while helping people feel comfortable and free to explore at their own pace. Location + Entry Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035 Entry Intstructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter. Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total. Tickets $20 Member Ticket, $30 Solo Ticket, $50 Partner Ticket (2 tickets) ⬇️ 🎟 Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here Interested in becoming a member? You do not need to be a member to attend Call the Babysitter Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]

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Leather Archives & Museum

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